One of my biggest fears is ending up alone. I don't want to be 40 some odd years old and still trying to get a date. Yet there are people out there that honestly believe they won't find somebody they would like to spend their life with. I can't imagine going through your entire life alone. Friends and family are great but there not always there and you can only open up to them so much. Having some sort of a significant other that's there for you is something else. You can tell them everything and they understand you or at least sympathize with you. You always have somebody there to give you that comfortable feeling. I find it sad and depressing that there are people who focus on their careers and thinking that will make them happy when it will only be a small measure of their life. A career is only 40 hours a week, what about the other 128 hours you’re not at work. Do people really want to spend that time all alone?